I design structure for people navigating the end of their marriage.
The work
that shaped this.
That's the work I do now.
I spent nearly two decades practicing family law across Singapore and England & Wales. I've sat across the table from every kind of divorce: the ones that stayed civil, the ones that turned brutal, the ones that dragged for years because no one could make a decision.
I learned what actually determines outcomes.
It's not who has the better lawyer. It's who can communicate strategically, make decisions from structure instead of reaction, and design their exit instead of defaulting through it.
The legal process handles paperwork and court procedures. It doesn't build the architecture you need for high-stakes communication, complex decision-making, or co-parenting that works in reality.
They needed frameworks for managing a manipulative ex. The law couldn't provide that.
They needed decision architecture for impossible trade-offs. The court couldn't design that.
They needed communication systems that worked under pressure. Their lawyer couldn't build that.
The most valuable part of my work wasn't the legal advice, it was the strategic thinking that helped people navigate what the law couldn't touch.
So I retrained as a mediator, built coaching frameworks, and created structure for the parts of divorce that destroy people, not because they're legally complex, but because they lack design.
Why I Left Legal Practice
I watched people spend years and tens of thousands on legal process while their actual problems went unaddressed.
19 years of family law experience across two jurisdictions. I know what holds up in court, what matters in negotiation, and what's just noise.
Trained in mediation and high-conflict resolution. I understand manipulation tactics, escalation patterns, and why standard approaches fail.
Strategic thinking that treats divorce as a design problem. Not a crisis to manage. Not trauma to process. A complex system requiring intentional architecture.
How I work
DIRECT. I don't soften difficult realities. If your strategy isn't serving you, I'll tell you.
STRATEGIC. Every situation is a design problem with structural solutions. We build frameworks, not just cope with feelings.
PRECISE. I strip false options, surface actual interests, focus on execution.
BOUNDED. Clear scope, clear access, clear expectations. I protect my capacity to deliver strategic thinking when you need it.
What I Bring
WHY IT WORKS
I BRING 19 YEARS IN DIVORCE, CONFLICT AND HIGH-STAKES COMMUNICATION INTO EVERY SESSION.
- Worked as a divorce lawyer in Singapore and England & Wales
- Certified Divorce Coach pathway
- Certified Parenting Coach pathway
- ICF-Certified Coaching (ACC)
- Conflict Resolution + Mediation (Singapore Mediation Centre)
- Trauma-informed communication (AWARE)
- Therapeutic Justice certified (Singapore Academy of Law)
- Trained Adult Facilitator (ACLP 2.0)
- WSG Career Advisory Programme
- Mother of a teenager
