MAKE BETTER DECISIONS
USE YOUR LAWYER BETTER
STOP REACTING TO EVERYTHING
You're a capable person.
You have a lawyer. You've Googled. You've spoken to friends. You may have watched approximately 73 reels about narcissists.
And yet you're still wondering:
Should I reply to this?
Is this worth fighting about?
What am I actually asking my lawyer to do?
Is this a terrible deal?
Am I being reasonable, or just giving everything away?
So why does divorce suddenly make you feel like you have no idea what you're doing?
You have more than enough information. The gap is knowing how to use it.
LESS
reacting / spiralling / asking six people / expensive lawyer emails
MORE
clarity / preparation / deliberate decisions / actual strategy
The 4 things people get wrong when they divorce
Which is exactly why I made Foundation ↓
Urgent is not necessarily important.
01. They deal with whatever is loudest.
Your lawyer can advise you. They cannot decide what kind of life you want afterwards.
02. They outsource too much thinking to their lawyer.
Being understood feels important. The better question is often: what do I need this communication to achieve?
03. They communicate to be understood instead of to get an outcome.
You don't want to discover your bottom line while someone is asking you to cross it.
04. They negotiate before they've worked out what matters.
the modules:
You know what needs your attention now and what can wait.
Before You Do Anything
You'll map your financial and legal, instead of guessing at it.
Know Where You Stand
You'll have a framework for what you send, and for who else might read it.
Communication That Protects You
You'll know your walkaway point before you're in the room.
The Negotiation
Blueprint
I ALSO MADE YOU SOME THINGS
The Divorce Blueprint
The Comms Scripts
The Decision Workbook
Six Thinking Traps
I spent 19 years watching people divorce.
Why listen to me?
Foundation is essentially everything I kept wishing people knew sooner.
19 YEARS LAW / MEDIATOR / DIVORCE COACH / ENGLAND + SINGAPORE
I spent 19 years watching people divorce.
I practised family law in Singapore and in England and Wales. I’m now a CDC Certified High Conflict Divorce Coach and an accredited mediator. I’ve sat in the rooms where these decisions get made, and every framework in Foundation is tested against how a high-conflict case actually moves.
WHAT CHANGES WHEN YOU HAVE A METHOD
Beta tester, already divorced.
"I WISH I'd had something like this"
“Within an hour of buying it, I’d started the worksheets. It’s already changing how I’m thinking about this.”
- Foundation Course buyer
Your coaching syllabus is POWERFUL!
- Foundation Course buyer
THIS IS PROBABLY FOR YOU IF
You know decisions are coming and the process won't wait for you to feel ready.
You have a lawyer, or you're about to get one. You're functional, working, managing, parenting and aware you're making consequential, high-stakes decisions without enough certainty.
You want to understand what's happening well enough to direct it.
What this course covers: frameworks, communication principles and negotiation strategy. Building a case file, preparing disclosure and managing procedural steps stay with your lawyer. Foundation helps you understand what you’re doing and why, so you direct the process instead of being directed by it.
- You've already caught yourself over-explaining to your ex just to seem reasonable.
- You've made a concession you didn't need to make, just to end an uncomfortable conversation.
- You're the one who normally has the answers, and this time, you don't.
- You research everything before deciding, and you're still not sure you're deciding right.
- You want to walk into a negotiation already know what you'll hold and what you'll give.
- You're looking for legal/financial advice, emotional support or someone to decide for you.
- You're in immediate crisis and need support before you need strategy.
- Your ex is fully cooperative and none of this friction applies to you (yet).
Questions people actually ask
No. It's the thinking and the language, not the paperwork. You'll still need a lawyer for legal advice.
No. The frameworks work from wherever you are now. They don't undo what's already happened, but they stop it from repeating.
Reasonable now doesn't mean reasonable in six months. The course is built for the version of this that gets harder, not the version that stays easy.
About 5 hours of video, which most people work through over roughly 4 weeks. There’s no cohort and no schedule. Move at your pace.
No. It's a digital product, so there's no refund window. Everything the course covers is listed above.
Private Divorce Coaching is built for that. Most people use this course alongside this, not instead.
Not therapy. Not legal advice. Not financial advice.
This work supports calm decision-making alongside professional services where needed.
