Most people navigating separation or divorce are doing their best with the information they have.
The gaps aren't obvious until they are.
The message that felt measured when you sent it reads differently when it's pulled out of context.
Your financial picture is probably missing two or three categories your ex's lawyer already knows to check.
The move that felt like strength landed as escalation. The conversation you thought was resolved is now a position.
The gap is preparation. Everything follows from there.
The Foundation Course is what most people wish they'd had earlier.
A decision framework that's yours
Writing that serves your outcomes, not just your feelings
A structure for every message before you send it
A system for de-escalating instead of matching energy
Clarity on your financial and legal position, so you ask the right questions
Enough context to direct your lawyer instead of defer to them
Your Divorce Blueprint: what you're protecting and why
Asking everyone what they think, still not knowing what you think
Sending messages you regret, or holding back ones you needed to send
Deciding without the full picture
Reacting to whatever arrives
Unsure whether you're asking your lawyer the right questions
No clear definition of a good outcome
Self-paced video and workbooks for every module, on a dedicated platform.
Community access: Live Q&A twice a month. Real questions, not hypotheticals.
Community access: Monthly co-working sessions.
Community access is included for three months. After that, you can opt to renew.
Self- paced
no cohort.
3
months
community access
4
weeks
typical completion
~5hrs
video content
You have a lawyer, or you're about to get one. You're functional, working, managing, parenting and aware you're making consequential, high-stakes decisions without enough certainty.
You want to understand what's happening well enough to direct it.
This course covers frameworks, communication principles, and negotiation strategy. It doesn't walk you through building a case file, preparing disclosure documents, or managing the procedural steps. For that, you may need a lawyer.
What this course does is help you understand what you're doing and why, so that when you sit down with one, you're directing the process rather than being directed by it.
This is a digital product. There's no refund or guarantee attached. What you get instead is the full picture above, so you know exactly what you're buying before you buy it.
No. It's the thinking and the language, not the paperwork. You'll still need a lawyer for legal advice.
No. The frameworks work from wherever you are now. They don't undo what's already happened, but they stop it from repeating.
Reasonable now doesn't mean reasonable in six months. The course is built for the version of this that gets harder, not the version that stays easy.
About 5 hours of video, spread over roughly 4 weeks. No cohort, no deadline. Move at your pace.
The course itself is yours to keep. Community access becomes optional, $8/month if you joined as an early bird, $18/month standard
No. It's a digital product, so there's no refund window. Everything the course covers is listed above, so you know exactly what you're getting before you pay for it.
The Design Process is built for that. With your community access, there are live Q&A sessions twice a month and private coaching offers. Most people use this course alongside one of those, not instead.
Not therapy. Not legal advice. Not financial advice.
This work supports calm decision-making alongside professional services where needed.