THE FOUNDATION COURSE 

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Most people move without knowing their first moves. You won't.

WHAT'S In IT ↓

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FIRST

 This

When everything is already in motion

You know more than most people going through this.

Most people navigating separation or divorce are doing their best with the information they have.

The gaps aren't obvious until they are.

The message that felt measured when you sent it reads differently when it's pulled out of context.

Your financial picture is probably missing two or three categories your ex's lawyer already knows to check.

The move that felt like strength landed as escalation. The conversation you thought was resolved is now a position.

The gap is preparation. Everything follows from there.

The Foundation Course is what most people wish they'd had earlier.

That's not the same as knowing enough.

WhAT CHANGES

A decision framework that's yours


Writing that serves your outcomes, not just your feelings


A structure for every message before you send it

A system for de-escalating instead of matching energy

Clarity on your financial and legal position, so you ask the right questions

Enough context to direct your lawyer instead of defer to them

Your Divorce Blueprint: what you're protecting and why


Asking everyone what they think, still not knowing what you think

Sending messages you regret, or holding back ones you needed to send

Deciding without the full picture


Reacting to whatever arrives 


Unsure whether you're asking your lawyer the right questions


No clear definition of a good outcome 

Before

AFTER

the course

Four modules.

No wasted time.

Self-paced video and workbooks for every module, on a dedicated  platform.

Community access: Live Q&A twice a month. Real questions, not hypotheticals.

Community access: Monthly co-working sessions.

Community access is included for three months. After that, you can opt to renew.

Self- paced

no cohort. 

3
months

community access 

4
weeks

typical completion

~5hrs

video content 

four modules

Before strategy, before paperwork, before any practical move.

You know what needs your attention now and what can wait.


01
Before You Do Anything



You can't decide well from an unclear picture. 


You'll map your financial and legal, not assume.
02
Know Where You Stand

Every message you send is potential evidence.

You have a framework for what you send, and who else might read it.


03
Communication That Protects You



Most people negotiate from emotion and half the facts.

You'll know your walkaway point before you're in the room.


04
The Negotiation
Blueprint



Also INcluded

The Divorce Blueprint

A personal anchor document completed at the midpoint of the course. What a good outcome looks like for you. What you are protecting. Your non-negotiables. How you intend to conduct yourself. Your early warning signals for when you're going off track. Not for your lawyer. Not for the process. For you.


The Comms Scripts

Twenty ready-to-adapt scripts across four situations: general communication and boundaries, co-parenting arrangements, high-conflict responses, and legal and financial correspondence. Each script includes what it achieves and what to watch for. For when you know you need to respond but don't know how to start.


The Decision Workbook

Five frameworks for making decisions when the stakes are high and the information is incomplete. Covers how to tell the difference between seeking permission and seeking perspective, how to filter whose input actually matters, and a five-step process for making a call and not second-guessing it later. 


Six Thinking Traps

A short reference document on the patterns that derail good decision-making under pressure. The ones that feel rational in the moment and aren't.

who this is for

THIS IS FOR YOU IF


THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF



You know decisions are coming.

The process won't wait for you to feel ready.

You have a lawyer, or you're about to get one. You're functional, working, managing, parenting and aware you're making consequential, high-stakes decisions without enough certainty.


You want to understand what's happening well enough to direct it.

This course covers frameworks, communication principles, and negotiation strategy. It doesn't walk you through building a case file, preparing disclosure documents, or managing the procedural steps. For that, you may need a lawyer.

What this course does is help you understand what you're doing and why, so that when you sit down with one, you're directing the process rather than being directed by it.

This is a digital product. There's no refund or guarantee attached. What you get instead is the full picture above, so you know exactly what you're buying before you buy it.

Worth knowing 

  • You've already caught yourself over-explaining to your ex just to seem reasonable.
  • You've made a concession you didn't need to make, just to end an uncomfortable conversation.
  • You're the one who normally has the answers, and this time, you don't.
  • You research everything before deciding, and you're still not sure you're deciding right.
  • You want to walk into a negotiation already know what you'll hold and what you'll give.



  • You're looking for legal/financial advice, emotional support or someone to decide for you.
  • You're in immediate crisis and need support before you need strategy.
  • Your ex is fully cooperative and none of this friction applies to you (yet).


PRICING

All four modules are complete and accessible from day one, along with live Q&A and co-working sessions.

Community access includes community rates to masterclasses and other offers.

Secure checkout via ThriveCart. The course opens immediately on purchase.

Community access: included for 3 months, then $8/month (OPTIONAL)

$398 

Split Payments Available

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Questions people actually ask

Is this legal advice?

No. It's the thinking and the language, not the paperwork. You'll still need a lawyer for legal advice.

I've already sent messages I regret or given ground I shouldn't have. Is it too late?

No. The frameworks work from wherever you are now. They don't undo what's already happened, but they stop it from repeating.

What if my ex is being reasonable? Do I still need this?

Reasonable now doesn't mean reasonable in six months. The course is built for the version of this that gets harder, not the version that stays easy.

How much time does this actually take?

About 5 hours of video, spread over roughly 4 weeks. No cohort, no deadline. Move at your pace.

What happens after the three months of access?

The course itself is yours to keep. Community access becomes optional, $8/month if you joined as an early bird, $18/month standard

Is there a refund if it turns out not to be right for me?

No. It's a digital product, so there's no refund window. Everything the course covers is listed above, so you know exactly what you're getting before you pay for it.

What if I need more than a course, like someone to actually talk to?

The Design Process is built for that. With your community access, there are live Q&A sessions twice a month and private coaching offers. Most people use this course alongside one of those, not instead.

Not therapy. Not legal advice. Not financial advice.
This work supports calm decision-making alongside professional services where needed.

The Foundation Course.

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