Decision Design Session

A focused session to help you think clearly and decide what to do next.

For divorce, separation, and other high-stakes personal decisions.

Clear thinking when the stakes are high.

When this session helps

  • you're being asked to make decisions but clarity keeps collapsing
  • too many voices are competing for your attention
  • everything feels consequential, and that pressure is slowing you down
  • you know something isn't working, but can't yet articulate why
  • you're torn between competing values

This isn't about confidence or strength.  It's about thinking clearly under pressure.

What happens in the session

This is a structured, paid working session.

  • identify the actual decision that needs to be made
  • separate signal from emotional noise
  • clarify what matters - and what doesn't
  • design your next move and how to communicate it


You leave with:

  • a clearer decision
  • language you can use
  • a steadier sense of direction

No performance.  No emotional excavation. No overwhelm.

This is

This is not

  • calm, structured thinking support
  • practical and grounded
  • designed for real-world consequences



  • therapy
  • legal advice
  • mediation
  • a discovery or sales call



If you're working with a lawyer or therapist, this session sits alongside that support - it doesn't replace it.

The practical details

  • Duration: 60 minutes
  • Format: video call
  • Focus: one core issue
  • Follow-up: none included (by design)



This session is designed to help you decide - not create dependency or ongoing ambiguity.

Do I need to be divorced or filing?

What If I need more Support After That?

Is This Confidential?

will i leave knowing whether to stay or go?

Will you Tell me What to Do?

No. We clarify your decision by isolating the real choice underneath the noise and organising the factors that matter.

Will you Tell me What to Do?

will i leave knowing whether to stay or go?

Do I need to be divorced or filing?

What If I need more Support After That?

Is This Confidential?

This session doesn't force a stay-or-go answer - it clarifies what decision actually needs to be made next, and on what basis.

Will you Tell me What to Do?

will i leave knowing whether to stay or go?

What If I need more Support After That?

Is This Confidential?

Do I need to be divorced or filing?

No.  This session is about helping you think clearly about a decision, whatever stage you're at.

What If I need more Support After That?

Will you Tell me What to Do?

will i leave knowing whether to stay or go?

Do I need to be divorced or filing?

Is This Confidential?

Everything discussed in the session is confidential.
This is a coaching session, not a legal consultation, so it isn't protected by lawyer-client privilege.

Do I need to be divorced or filing?

What If I need more Support After That?

Is This Confidential?

Will you Tell me What to Do?

will i leave knowing whether to stay or go?

This session is designed to help you think clearly about one core issue.  For many people, that clarity alone changes everything.  If more support is useful, that can be discussed afterward.

Common questions

If this sounds like that you need, this is the place to start.

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