You're here to design.
Calm structure for high-conflict moments.
How We Work ↓
When everything feels loud
Make it quieter.
You're overwhelmed. Your lawyer is expensive but you're still unsure what moves to make. Every communication with your ex escalates costs and tensions.
The Design Process starts here: building the architecture that makes everything quieter.
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When you're stuck
Think clearly.
Decide cleanly.
You don't need reassurance. You don't need more advice.
You need frameworks for thinking clearly when the stakes are high.
In The Design Process, we:
This is the clarification phase. It happens in weeks 1-4.
You need frameworks for thinking clearly when the stakes are high.
In The Design Process, we:
- isolate what you actually want vs what you're fighting about
- separate emotional reactivity from strategic signal
- design your communication architecture
- map every decision to your stated priorities
This is the clarification phase. It happens in weeks 1-4.
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When things are ongoing
Stay steady while this unfolds.
High-conflict divorce doesn't resolve in one conversation.
It requires support over time, without creating dependency or chaos.
The Design Process is:
You get:
It requires support over time, without creating dependency or chaos.
The Design Process is:
- structured weekly sessions up to 60 minutes for 3 months
- time-bound: defined beginning and end, not ongoing forever
- designed to reduce escalation, not relive it
You get:
- message review before you send anything high-stakes
- navigation through mediation and negotiation
- decision support for children, money, timelines
- whatsapp access between sessions for urgent questions
This is the execution phase.
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When the crisis has passed.
Rebuild without drama.
When the immediate fire is out, a different kind of work becomes possible.
This final phase is about:
Some clients reach this phase during our 3 months together. Others need ongoing support through to final orders and beyond.
There is no rush here.
This work unfolds at your pace.
This final phase is about:
- integrating what you've learned
- rebuilding confidence and direction
- moving forward without carrying the conflict with you
Some clients reach this phase during our 3 months together. Others need ongoing support through to final orders and beyond.
There is no rush here.
This work unfolds at your pace.
Not therapy. Not legal advice.
This work supports calm decision-making alongside professional services where needed.
When You're Ready to Start.
The Design Process
3-month strategic coaching for high-conflict divorce
Investment: S$3,500
Weekly sessions | Between-session support | Complete strategic architecture
HOW TO BEGIN:
Most clients start with a Strategic Planning Session first.
In 90 minutes, we audit your situation and build your roadmap for handling it strategically. You'll know whether you need the full Design Process or can execute on your own.
Investment: S$3,500
Weekly sessions | Between-session support | Complete strategic architecture
HOW TO BEGIN:
Most clients start with a Strategic Planning Session first.
In 90 minutes, we audit your situation and build your roadmap for handling it strategically. You'll know whether you need the full Design Process or can execute on your own.
