DESIGN your EXIT
for when you want control, not chaos
for when you want outcomes, not opinions
for when the legal process isn't enough
for when you need the architecture, not just advice
Most divorces are reactive.
There's another way.
Our approach begins with strategic architecture: understanding what you're building, what you're protecting, and who you're becoming.
By designing structure, we help you make decisions that serve your actual interests and create a foundation for the life you're building next.
Whether you're ready for strategic guidance, or want to build the tools yourself, we offer solutions designed for your specific situation, at your own pace.
Strategic guidance for high-stakes decisions when the legal process isn't enough.
We build the architecture: communication frameworks that hold under pressure, decision structures that serve your actual interests, mediation preparation that positions you strategically. This is divorce by design, not default. For when you need to think three moves ahead.
Let's Design Your Divorce
Neutral facilitation for when both parties want structure, not combat.
Process design that strips false options and surfaces real decisions. For couples who recognise that destructive process serves no one, especially not your children or your future.
Constructive negotiation. Clear frameworks. Designed outcomes.
Self-paced fundamentals for strategic preparation.
Learn the communication architecture, boundary structures, and decision frameworks that turn reactive moments into designed responses. Build your foundation before you need it, or while you're in the middle of it.
Coming soon. Join the waitlist via our contact form with the subject "Waitlist".
The antidote to chaotic, adversarial divorce.
I spent 19 years as a family lawyer in Singapore and England & Wales before becoming a mediator and coach.
I've seen what works - and what destroys. I know the legal terrain and the emotional architecture. The difference between reacting and responding. Between boundaries and walls. Between calm and suppression.
The Divorce Atelier is for people who want to design the end of their marriage instead of letting it destroy them.
Who I am
meet Iman Ibrahim
Iman showed me how to structure my proposals without triggering conflict. For the first time, I could discuss parenting and finances with my husband without things escalating. I saved thousands in legal fees because our conversations became workable.
Mother of two, private sector professional
We came from another mediator feeling overwhelmed and unheard. With Iman, everything was calm, structured, and productive. For the first time, we felt genuinely able to move forward.
Couple, failed mediation elsewhere
I used to react to every message my ex-wife sent. Working with Iman changed that. I learned to read the situation clearly, respond strategically, and set the tone. Over time, my ex's messages became shorter, clearer, and far less charged. More importantly, I gained meaningful time with my kids that I thought I'd lost.
C-suite executive, Singapore
